The voices in my head
opinion about The Gathering (8x17) of Criminal Minds

Okay. So, I’ve decided to join into the conversation. I am sure I’m going to piss somebody off. Whatever. The Gathering (8X17) was a great episode. I loved the ending scene between Hotch and Reid. Yes, I am a Reid fan, but Criminal Minds is not the Reid show. Those of us that have emotionally invested in the team/family dynamic since Gideon was on and we have a connection with each of the characters and the dynamics between them.

Why was the ending great? Because Hotch FINALLY took the extra leap in the person relationship with Reid. The last time we saw this it was on Revelations (2x15). At least twice a season, it get’s pointed out that they all are not just a team, but also a family. That has been shown with each of the characters except when it comes to Hotch and Reid. Since Revelations (2x15), it has been Boss/Friend dynamic. Not mentor, father, older-brother. None of that. Just it’s either I’m your friend or I’m your boss. Reid got somebody killed. Okay. I know that everyone thinks that’s some big deal, but it isn’t. They all have done it in the 8 seasons this show has been on.  When Gideon has his meltdown, he got two people killed. Elle shot someone in cold blood. Prentiss just left. Dealing with emotional issues of his team members hasn’t been a long-suit of Hotch’s except with Rossi of course. The scene with Reid and the guy at the pool, was more of a warning that maybe he is losing faith in the system. Each of the meltdowns in pervious seasons that resulted in someone leaving, there is this moment of warning. What happens? Nothing. No one mentions anything, except the one time Reid tried to talk to Elle in the hotel. Imagine my shock and elation that hey finally, the big man in the suit took the warning for what it was and stepped in for the first time in years.

Now, I’m sure you all are thinking. What? Think about it, where was Hotch with the drug addiction? Where was Hotch when the headaches got bad? Who does Reid confide in this season? The new agent, Alex. The last big screw up that Reid did was in Elephant’s Memory (3x16). What did Hotch do there? Do it again and you’re fired. Not, why in the heat of the moment, did a valuable member of my team/family not trust us as individuals or a unit to do the right thing concerning the kid?  When it comes to the emotional support of the youngest member with a predisposition to mental illness, it has fallen on Morgan and J.J. mostly. But, neither of them are the head of the team/family. Okay. Technically, Rossi and Hotch are supposed to be equal, but Supervisory Special Agent Aaron Hotchner has always been the true leader of the B.A.U. based out of Quantico, Virginia.  He stepped up.

Okay, many people keep pointing out that Reid is not 12 years old. No he’s not. But every season it gets pointed out that working for the FBI causes people to destroy their lives and themselves. How many marriages has Rossi had? Look what happened to Hotch, Gideon, Elle, and even Strauss. Let’s not forget the “marital issues” that get hinted all the time between J.J. and Will.

I liked it because it was nice to see that Hotch actually cares. The last big issue Reid had that could of destroyed his life and career; nobody said anything and this time he stepped in. Especially since this could be used as a precursor to a loss of empathy and then the writers could take it to the whole Reid as an UNSUB plot, which would end his time at the B.A.U. Which would be cool, but really sad because I like the Reid character. I don’t want him to leave.

Yes? No? Think I’m crazy.

getstooobsessed:

“Mommy, they are just like me.” 

My oldest son is six years old and in love for the first time.  He is in love with Blaine from Glee. 

For those who don’t know Blaine is a boy…a gay boy, the boyfriend of one of the main characters, Kurt.

This isn’t a ‘he thinks Blaine is really cool’ kind of love.  It is a mooning at a picture of Blaine’s face for a half hour followed by a wistful “He’s so pretty” kind of love.

He loves the episode where two boys kiss.  My son will call people in from other parts of the house to make sure they don’t miss his ‘favorite part.’  He’s been known to rewind it and watch it over again…and force other to, as well, if he doesn’t think people have been paying enough attention.

This infatuation doesn’t bother me or his father.  We live in a very hip-liberal neighborhood, many of our friends are gay, and idea of having a gay son isn’t something that bothers either of us.  Our son is going to be who he is, and it is our job to love him.  End of story.

He is also six.  Six year olds get obsessed with all kinds of things.  This might not mean anything at all.  We always joke that he’s either gay, or we have the best blackmail material in the history of mankind when he’s a 16 year old straight boy. (Take that naked bath time pictures!)

Then the other day we were traveling across the state listening to the Warblers album (of course), and in the middle of Candles, my son pipes up from the back seat.

“Mommy, Kurt and Blaine are boyfriends.”

“Yes, they are,” I affirm.

“They don’t like kissing girls.  They just kiss boys.”

“That’s true.”

“Mommy, they are just like me.”

“That’s great, baby.  You know I love you no matter what?”

“I know…” I could hear him rolling his eyes at me.

When we got home I recapped this conversation to his Dad, and we stood simply looking into each other’s eyes for a moment.  Then we smiled.

“So if at 16 he wants to make a big announcement at the dinner table, we can say ‘You told us when you were six.  Pass the carrots’ and he’ll be disappointed we stole his big dramatic moment,” my husband says with a laugh and hugs me.

Only time will tell if my son is gay, but if he is I am glad he’s mine.  I am glad he has been born into our family.  A family full of people who will love and accept him.  People who will never want him to change.  With parents who will look forward to dancing at his wedding.

And I have to admit, Blaine would be a really cute son-in-law.

This is so sweet!

Did anyone else think that maybe Nick was a little more childish this episode and less detective and less Grimm?

Did anyone else think that maybe Nick was a little more childish this episode and less detective and less Grimm?

symphonyofsoldier:

the dark does have a bright side

What’s sad is that in some situations that statement is actually true!

symphonyofsoldier:

the dark does have a bright side

What’s sad is that in some situations that statement is actually true!

transurfingzeland:

Grimm S02E13

LOVE IT!!

transurfingzeland:

Grimm S02E13

LOVE IT!!

Accurate Statistics for Grimm on NBC

Accurate Statistics for Grimm on NBC:

MAIN CHARACTERS:

  • Detective Nick Burkhardt: male, white, straight
  • Detective Hank Griffin: male, black, straight
  • Juliette Silverton: female, white, straight
  •  Monroe: male, white/Blutbad, straight
  • Captain (Prince) Sean Renard: male, half-Austrian/half-Hexenbiest, straight
  •  Sergeant Wu: male, Asian, unknown-sexuality
  •  Adalind Schade: female, white/Hexenbiest, straight
  • Rosalee Calvert: Female, white/Fuchsbau, straight

Tally:

  •       63% Male
  •       75% White
  •       88% Declared Straight

 Cast of Grimm:

  • David C. Giuntoli: Male, White, straight
  • Russell Hornsby: Male, black, straight
  • Bitsie Tulloch: Female, Half-Hispanic/half-White, unknown-sexuality
  • Silas Weir Mitchell: Male, White, straight
  • Sasha Roiz: Male, Russian/Israeli, straight
  • Reggie Lee: Male, Filipino, unknown-sexuality
  • Claire Coffee: Female, White, Straight
  • Bree Turner: Female, White Straight

Tally: 

  •  63% Male
  • 56% White
  •  75% Declared Straight

The Message ultimately is the same.

screendiversity:

Grimm

CAST OF CHARACTERS

  • Nick Burkhardt: male, white, straight
  • Hank Griffin: male, black, straight
  • Juliette Silverton: female, white, straight
  • Monroe: male, white, straight
  • Sean Renard: male, Israeli, straight

THE TALLY

  • 80% male
  • 60% white
  • 100% straight

Great Quote!

Nolan Ross

xsarr:

I don’t care if Nolan is bi/gay/whatever….he’s hot!

I agree!

Thomas Gibson arrested

Criminal Minds star Thomas Gibson was arrested early Sunday on suspicion of a DUI, TMZ reports.

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Gibson, 50, was driving in downtown Los Angeles at approximately 1 a.m. and attempted to drive through a section that was blocked off for a half marathon, law enforcement officials tell the site. Gibson was stopped and told he could not drive through the blockade, but he proceeded to do so anyway.

Police eventually stopped the Dharma & Greg alum and detected alcohol on his breath. According to TMZ, Gibson refused to take a breathalyzer test and was then arrested on suspicion of misdemeanor DUI. He was taken into custody at 1:37 a.m., and his bail was set at $15,000.

Yahoo!News
http://tv.yahoo.com/news/criminal-minds-thomas-gibson-arrested-suspicion-dui-171200663.html